Attending
weddings are fun, or so it may seem to most people.
Have
attended quite a few and I must say each region (of India ) has a different way of
celebrating the event.
Some
of the most sober (and poker faced) ones are the ones that I have seen in my own community. The
guests just come, eat and go. Some of them don’t even bother to wish the
couple. And after reaching home they discuss about the amount of gold the bride
was wearing (or should have worn)
Recently
I attended a Bengali wedding in Calcutta .
There are a lot of rituals and customs that are followed, but on the whole it
was fun and colourful.
It
was nice to see that all the guests took a keen interest in the proceedings. I
tried to capture most of it on video but it was a tough fight wading through
the multitude of the relatives who were milling around the couple.
I
was lucky as far as the lighting goes, as the marriage hall was very spacious
and well lit. I also found that every time I was strategically placed so that
all the events were happening right in front of me.
Even
though there was an official photographer, you could see that practically every
one was trying to capture a slice of the action.
I
managed to get a lot of footage but the challenge was to edit and compress it
so that the viewer would not get bored . Finally I managed to do it……. a three
day event compressed to 33 minutes. Attaching here a part of it (about 10
minutes)
Like I said before, it is colourful and lively.




